Travels With Lea

I’m Interviewed by Fodor’s Editors About Solo Travel



Lea’s Eight Picks for Soloists
Amalfi Coast , Top budget pick.
Canada, Top budget/solo-friendly pick.
Thailand, Top budget pick.
Grand Canyon, Top solo experience pick.
Canyon Ranch, Top spa pick.
Cliffside Inn, Top lodging pick.
New York, Favorite solo city/domestic.
London, Favorite solo city/ foreign.

A recent Fodor’s survey reveals that a clear majority of Americans recognize the benefits of traveling alone.

In her book, Solo Traveler: Tales and Tips for Great Trips, journalist and intrepid solo sojourner [and our own Solo Lady] Lea Lane examines the bugaboos that keep solitary souls from packing suitcases and offers advice on how to overcome them. Fodor’s editors recently sat down with Lea:

“The best way to overcome the stigmas is to get out there and have fun traveling solo,” says Lane. Here are some of her savviest suggestions:.

lealane.gifWhy travel solo?
Soloing isn’t just a different way to travel—it’s the ultimate way. Undiluted. Totally in the moment. Undistracted. Just what you want, how you want it, and when you want it so you can experience all you can. You will have more freedom and meet more people.

What’s the most important advice?
Don’t fall for the negatives you’ll hear from those who can’t imagine soloing. As a solo traveler you are special and will be able to deal with almost anything with thorough planning, good judgment, an open mind, and a smile. The world is filled with great people and things, and by soloing wisely you’ll get to experience them to the fullest. Just trust your instincts and use your head.

How do I avoid loneliness?
It’s a cliche by now, but “alone” and “lonely” are different words. Separate them. You can be far lonelier with an incompatible travel partner. Just do what you enjoy, go where you want to go, and try to seek out like-minded, interesting people as you travel. A smile and a question work wonders. Seek out places with lots to do and lots of other soloists, like cities, or spas or cruises. Or join groups for all or part of your trip.

What tips do you have for eating alone?
Eat in informal places, like cafes or pubs. Have your main meal at lunch. Stay at lodgings with dining on premises. If you go to a fancy place, reserve ahead if possible, arrive early, and don’t settle for a bad table. Bring something to read, do some writing, and enjoy being in the spotlight. This is your chance to be a diva—so dress up and act as special as you are. You’ll have others envying your free spirit.

How can a soloist save money?
A big problem for solo travelers is the single supplement, a surcharge often tacked on to a room when you travel alone. To avoid this, look for special deals, off-season times, and groups that offer discounts or roommates. You can compensate by trying for upgrades, bargaining in the marketplace, and focusing on what’s important: Should you spend on food or film? Room or shopping? When you’re on your own you can budget the way you want, without an argument.

What is the key safety issue for women traveling solo?
The same as anywhere—people who have bad motives, and who will try and take advantage of you in some way. Try to blend in as much as possible, and remain cautious and skeptical. Don’t let a cute accent and smooth line fool you. Keep a low profile, don’t be flashy, and stay in public places. Safety trumps truth—have a line ready that will discourage jerks.

What is the most unexpected experience you’ve had on a solo trip?
One of the joys of soloing is that options are endless, and you’ll have many wonderful, surprising experiences. I was gazing at a painting in a museum in Erfurt Germany. A director of a European travel show saw me and was so impressed that I was on my own he decided to shoot a segment around me, on the spot. So for the rest of the day I was a star, and was treated to dinner as guest of honor at a medieval banquet. You never know!

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Author: Lea Lane

Lea Lane is an award-winning writer/editor and world traveler, who’s visited over 100 countries. She was managing editor of “Travel Smart” newsletter and was the “Going it Alone” columnist for Gannett newspapers. She has written six books, contributed to dozens of guidebooks, and is a featured blogger on the huffingtonpost, and

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